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Daddy Issues with Violet Benson
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Formerly Almost Adulting… but let’s call it what it always was. Welcome to DADDY ISSUES with Violet Benson. I brought the original name back. Because I am the OG Daddy Issues - the brand that started 12 years ago and turned a meme page into a movement. The name you've always known me by. So we’re done pretending. This podcast WILL change you... or at least your standards. We talk dating disasters, attachment styles, adulting, evolving past your patterns, confidence comebacks, mental health spirals, breakups, friendships, and how to stop chasing, settling, and playing small. Tough love backed by real psychology. I’m Violet Benson - Comedian, Daddy Issues meme queen, ex-accountant, soon-to-be-author, and your unfiltered Russian big sister. I’ll say what your therapist is thinking but won’t text you at 11PM. Welcome home. New episodes every Thursday. This isn’t Almost Adulting anymore. It’s Daddy Issues.
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- Let's Talk - May 12, 2026May 12, 2026 · 28 minLet’s talk about… the new season of Euphoria, taking a shot every time Sydney Sweeney’’s character forgets to wear a bra, why baths are superior to standing showers once you hit 30, and whatever other chaotic thoughts my ADHD brain came up with that are guaranteed to give you a giggle and a laugh. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- I Was Sentenced to 2 Years in Federal PrisonMay 7, 2026 · 1 hr 31 minA Daddy Issues listener DM’d Violet with the ultimate opener: she had just gotten out of federal prison. This week, Violet sits down with Carol, a former accountant indicted on wire fraud and bank fraud charges after COVID relief money went very wrong. We’re getting into the FBI showing up, facing 20 years, prison camp, halfway houses, ankle monitors, restitution, and what it really looks like to rebuild after serving your time. Carol made the mistake, paid the price, and now she’s telling the story. Thanks to our sponsors: Nutrafol: Receive $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code DADDYISSUES. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY.COM/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Let's Talk - May 5, 2026May 5, 2026 · 34 minLet’s talk about… Asking a man what hairstyle he would’ve had if he wasn’t balding, Anti-gravity scientists, The time doctors almost amputate my leg because... well, RUSSIA! What my teeth actually look like under my veneers and why you should NOT get veneers, And aliens… they’re just like us??? ALLEGEDLY. Babe wake up a new alien theory just dropped. Oh and we end the episode by teaching you some fun safety/party tricks about bears that could save your life!!! ALLEGEDLY. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Confession Corner with Sofia ElizabethApr 30, 2026 · 56 minTikTok creator Sofia Elizabeth joins Violet for a no-filter conversation about cheating, jealous men, bad exes, hookup prep, and the kind of dating stories that should have been enough to make you leave the first time. They get into bad excuses, obvious red flags, and the moments that tell you everything once you stop trying to explain him away. Get more content on: • @ violetbenson on Instagram • @ daddyissues_ on Instagram • @ Daddyissuespodcast on Instagram • WATCH ON YOUTUBE Follow Sofia HERE See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Let's Talk - April 28, 2026Apr 28, 2026 · 38 minI paid an Etsy witch for two spells, got my love life read by a racist fortune teller, forgot my mother’s birthday… and somehow that’s not even the craziest part. Plus: new Mormon Wives chaos, Taylor Frankie wiping her socials, Kendall Jenner and Jacob Elordi rumors, and is Alex Cooper’s husband ruining everything? Always a man, huh.. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Why Chasing Him Never Works - Benson Book ClubApr 23, 2026 · 29 minStop chasing men who are not choosing you. If you keep overgiving, overthinking, and ending up with the same guy in a different body, this one’s for you. This week on Daddy Issues, Violet dives into the book Why Men Love B*tches and breaks down why men chase what they have to earn. It's all part of this week’s Benson Book Club. Get more content on: • @violetbenson on Instagram • @daddyissues_ on Instagram • YouTube She has Thanks to our sponsors: Nutrafol: Receive $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code DADDYISSUES. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY.COM/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Let's Talk - April 21, 2026Apr 21, 2026 · 39 minLet’s talk about… the internet turning on MJ Gray, a Wizard Liz plot twist, and how my car accident turned into the most LA interaction ever. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Let’s Talk – Alix Earle vs Alex CooperApr 17, 2026 · 23 minLet's talk about... the Alex-on-Alix drama continues. We’ve got Alix Earle responding, Alex Cooper backtracking and deleting her TikTok, and Brianna Chickenfry entering the chat. From mean girl claims to fans switching up to Matt Kaplan almost dated who??? Yeah… you’re gonna want to sit down for this. Take a second... take it in..... Catch part 1 here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/daddy-issues-with-violet-benson/id1459685850?i=1000761252936 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- How to Tap Into Feminine Energy, Raise Your Standards & Stop Chasing MenApr 16, 2026 · 32 minYou are not too much. You are not hard to love. You are not asking for too much. This episode is for the girls who are done chasing, done overthinking, and done ending up with the same man in a different body. Violet gets into feminine energy, what it actually means, why so many women slip into their masculine energy without even realizing it, and how that starts showing up in dating. She talks self-worth, standards, intuition, softness, confidence, and knowing when to walk away. If you’re ready to stop forcing what is not flowing and start moving like the prize, this one is for you. Get more content on: • @violetbenson on Instagram • @daddyissues_ on Instagram • YouTube Thanks to our sponsors: Nutrafol: Receive $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code DADDYISSUES. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Let's Talk - April 14, 2026Apr 14, 2026 · 32 minLet's talk about... Alex Cooper and Alix Earle drama and why we are team Alix based on receipts. Let's also talk about Coachella how much it's changed over the years. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Why He Picked Her - Not You with Patti StangerApr 9, 2026 · 1 hr 12 minRead it and weep, besties, because Patti is not here to sugarcoat a single thing. Stop wasting your time on a boy who only wants you around to boost his ego, fill his schedule, and keep you on standby while he figures himself out. Boys will breadcrumb you, mind game you, and keep you confused. Men make it clear. And we are done accepting less. Today, Patti Stanger returns to the show to talk about how to stop being a placeholder, raise your standards, and actually recognize the difference between a man and a boy. Patti and Violet get into why women give too much too soon, how bad relationship patterns start in childhood, why men know much earlier than they admit, and how to tell when you’re being strung along. They also break down love bombing, gaslighting, red flags, ultimatums, dating with self-respect, and why waiting around is the fastest way to waste your own life. If you’ve ever questioned someone’s intentions, stayed too long, or confused chemistry with commitment, this one is your wake-up call. What to Listen For: 07:40 Why do we pick who we pick? 09:20 If you give a man too much of anything 13:43 Dating a boy versus a man 17:53 You want to know what their intentions are 22:37 If you allow yourself to be used 25:25 Is giving an ultimatum a good idea? 29:00 You get the ring when you have self respect 32:08 Why do we give our hearts too quickly? 35:59 Be realistic with your standards 43:06 Love bombers are mostly narcissists 47:48. Red flags vs green flags 52:19 The effects bad relationships have on kids 57:03 How do you handle the highs and lows? 59:30 Why are you wasting time? 01:07 Being able to do other things 01:08 Do I have to calm down my intensity to not scare off men? 01:11:30 What’s the best advice you’ve received? Connect with Patti on: Instagram Twitter Books Millionaire's Club Matchmaker Fragrance Get more content on: @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram <
- Let's Talk - April 7, 2026Apr 7, 2026 · 23 minLet’s talk about… the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done for a man. I'll start! And why doing something nice for someone who didn’t ask for it, never ends the way you want. (dropping this today since I've decided moving forward these episodes will drop on Tuesday's and not on Saturday's) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- A Series of Unfortunate Events: I Crossed The LineApr 2, 2026 · 22 minHave you ever let one reckless thought turn into a full night of regret? Violet kicks off a new Series of Unfortunate Events with two unbelievably embarrassing stories involving a one-night stand, a love confession to a best friend gone wrong, and the kind of confidence that only shows up right before everything goes to hell. You know those nights that should’ve ended one decision earlier? Yeah. It’s that. Because once a line gets crossed, there’s no cute way to walk it back. Get more content on: • @violetbenson on Instagram • @daddyissues_ on Instagram • YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Let's Talk - March 31, 2026Mar 31, 2026 · 31 minLet’s talk about… the secret lives of Mormon wives, Summer House scandal Amanda and Cierra, and me shamelessly campaigning to get on Traitors. Let's also talk about... how I stepped out for one night and found myself in a buffet of hot men, from not feeling chosen to choosing myself again, running into an LA yearner, hiring a matchmaker… and why I’m officially BACK in my dating era. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- From The Streets to The Alter with Hannah BernerMar 26, 2026 · 1 hr 9 minThey say you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife, but we’d like to think otherwise. At some point in our life, whether we are at the height of our career or living our best single lives, we all want to find that one person we can spend the rest of our life with, right? That one true love we all grew up hoping to find one day. I mean, at the very least, who doesn’t want to be with the best partner and have the best s*x at the drop of a dime? Besties, today we are joined by Hannah Berner! Hannah is the host of two extremely successful podcasts Giggly Squad and Berner Phone , a standup comedian, reality TV star, and now here with us on Almost Adulting! Today Violet and Hannah waste no time getting into things beginning with Violet calling out Hannah for not inviting her to her wedding! Hannah then goes into detail about her transition from hoe life to wife life, what it’s like dating (then marrying) an older guy, falling in love with someone you least expect to fall in love with, and why you should look for a partner that takes ugly photos of you. The two superstars also talk about the harsh realities of their professions and why checking in with yourself mentally is SO important. This episode is jam packed with hilarious stories and advice so sit back and listen up! What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 00:01:13 The first time I saw you… 00:02:44 Oh, cults? 00:04:41 Let’s talk about weddings 00:08:46 Would you date an older guy? 00:13:16 What people don’t know about me… 00:17:50 When people hurt other people 00:20:54 What’s your definition of happiness? 00:26:23 When you open up and stop pretending to be someone else 00:28:00 Loving someone you didn’t imagine ending up with 00:33:45 Going to the extremes, being emotionally unavailable 00:37:11 What is the purpose when you post on social media? 00:41:35 What about love that scared you the most? 00:45:33 How does it feel to have a life partner? 00:50:42 This is how the chase starts 00:52:16 Compatibility in marriage 00:55:29 Being loved even at your lowest 00:56:12 One person can’t be your everything 01:05:11 Has your definition of love changed over the years? 01:08:30 What I like about his d*ck… Connect with Hannah on: TikTok Twitter Instagram Website Giggle Squad Podcast
- Let's Talk - March 24, 2026Mar 24, 2026 · 21 minLet’s talk about… starting a skincare line with an organic…um….secret ingredient and whether texting your ex Happy Birthday is a good idea! I’m thinking…. no? But too bad because I already did it!! Oh wellllllll See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Let's Talk - The Bachelorette MenMar 22, 2026 · 7 minLet's talk about... the bachelorette men. That's it... just for 7 minutes. ok bye. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's MindMar 19, 2026 · 34 minWHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! Whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR. Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict. What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 01:03 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom 03:33 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings 04:23 Reason 2: Some men need space 06:03 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship 06:39 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship 07:35 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him 11:46 Step #2: Do not chase him 12:57 Men and women do things differently 13:34 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband 16:38 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach 21:16 Step #3: Focus on yourself 32:20 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict Get more content on: @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Let's Talk - March 18, 2026Mar 18, 2026 · 25 minLet's talk about... men with money kink/fetish + how I made $500. Watching TV > doing meth. IG couples are FAKE. When your man is only faithful bc no one else wanted him lol. The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives + what I learned. Taylor Frankie Paul. How pregnant women are the closest thing to a god. And whatever else I yapped about. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Let's Talk - March 17, 2026Mar 17, 2026 · 26 minLet's talk about... bleeding haemorrhoids. Devil o'clock. Anger issues. How having a friend full of rage will bring you peace. The older your parents get the more they'll like you. Lana del ray. SLOMW Mikayla and her weasel husband. and Taylor Frankie Paul + DV + The Bachelorette. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Why You Chase and He Pulls Away (The Anxious-Avoidant Trap) with Thais GibsonMar 12, 2026 · 1 hr 3 minIs your attachment style running the relationship? This week on Daddy Issues, Violet sits down with relationship expert Thais Gibson to break down why you chase, why he pulls away, and how subconscious wiring shapes the way you date. Thais Gibson is a best-selling author, counselor, and founder of the Personal Development School, known for her work on attachment styles and subconscious relationship patterns. They discuss the four attachment styles, the anxious-avoidant cycle, emotional triggers, and how childhood conditioning shapes the way you give and receive love. If the same dating patterns keep repeating in your life, this episode helps you understand why and how to start changing them. Connect with Thais Gibson: university.personaldevelopmentschool.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Let's Talk - March 10, 2026Mar 10, 2026 · 33 minLet's talk about.... that time I tased myself. That time I stabbed myself. How people pay to run marathons. My tiny feet. My crooked leg. Not surviving the zombie apocalypse. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Act Like a PrizeMar 5, 2026 · 52 minDaddy Issues starts now. This week, Violet Benson officially launches her podcast under the name that built her brand. After 12 years of building the Daddy Issues community, Violet shares the moment that pushed her to reclaim the name, protect what she created, and step fully back into the identity that started it all. Then Violet delivers a Russian big sister pep talk. She breaks down why so many women give girlfriend energy to men who can’t even text back, how “potential” keeps you stuck in the wrong relationships, and why confusion in dating usually means one thing: he’s not choosing you. She talks confidence, boundaries, self-worth, and the mindset shift that stops you from auditioning for men who were never going to pick you in the first place. If you’ve been romanticizing someone who gives you nothing, this episode is your reminder. You are the prize. TIMESTAMPS: 00:13 - Welcome to Daddy Issues: Violet announces the new podcast name 00:30 - Why Violet is reclaiming the Daddy Issues brand 02:38 - The moment that forced Violet to protect her brand 27:41 - The real episode begins: If he's confusing you, he's not choosing you. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- The Conversation You’re Avoiding with Mel RobbinsFeb 26, 2026 · 1 hr 17 minYou’re not crazy. You’re anxious. This week on Almost Adulting, Violet sits down with Mel Robbins to unpack high-functioning anxiety in love — why women attach fast, date potential, ignore red flags, and stay in relationships where they can’t ask for what they need. Mel breaks down the 5 Second Rule, how to stop spiraling, time blindness, and the worst thing you can do when anxiety hits. They talk separation anxiety, loving someone who’s wrong for you, being right vs. being connected, and the obvious signs he just doesn’t like you. If you’re successful but secretly overthinking everything in dating — this one will hit. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- How to Reinvent Yourself in 2026 After Losing YourselfFeb 19, 2026 · 40 minAfter a month-and-a-half break and a big network move, your Russian big sister Violet Benson is back – and she’s starting 2026 the only way she knows how: with tough love. Violet breaks down the four shifts that changed her life – and can change yours too. • setting real boundaries (and holding the door open when someone wants to leave) • radical self-awareness (aka stop lying to yourself) • knowing exactly who you are • and changing your perspective so you stop feeling like the victim in your own story She then breaks down why we romanticize the wrong people, the truth about “twin flames,” how you’ve been quietly self-sabotaging your love life, forgiving without apologies, and learning that sometimes the love story you’re chasing isn’t about another person – it’s about yourself. Today is the day you take your power back and start gaining confidence again after losing yourself in love. This episode is your reset. Don’t forget to leave a 5-star review when you’re done listening. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- How To Master Your Emotions with Jay ShettyDec 18, 2025 · 1 hr 13 minIf you’ve ever wondered why you settle, sabotage, or shut down.. this episode tells you the truth. Today on Almost Adulting , Violetta is joined by Jay Shetty - New York Times best-selling author, host of On Purpose , former monk, and one of the most influential voices in self-improvement, emotional healing, and modern spirituality. In this powerful conversation, Jay and Violetta dive into: the limits we place on ourselves (and each other) fear as an unformed boundary why timelines sabotage our growth the real meaning of love (beyond romance) how to build connection through vulnerability and how to rewrite the beliefs holding you back If you’re craving clarity, emotional growth, deeper love, or a fresh start, this is an episode worth revisiting. Some conversations deserve a second life. and don't forget to leave me a 5 star review on the apple podcast app when you're done listening!!!! WHAT TO LISTEN FOR: • 00:00 Intro • 02:15 The journey that took 10 years • 05:08 Deadlines vs. destiny • 06:13 Worst advice Jay ever received • 07:52 “We project our limits onto other people.” • 10:46 The three cancers of the mind • 12:45 How to change your feelings • 16:23 Best advice Jay ever received • 21:36 Why beginners should move fast • 28:19 The two lies we tell ourselves • 33:35 What unforgiveness does to you • 36:13 Different forms of love • 38:46 Is unconditional love real? • 41:26 Loving as a skill • 46:16 Fear as an unformed boundary • 50:05 The power of being alone • 53:08 Win or lose together • 58:52 What it really takes to make love work • 01:03:41 The 8 Rules of Love • 01:06:19 The myth of perfection • 01:08:35 Connect with the people who want you AND THAT IS ALL FOR 2025!!! WE WILL BE BACK IN 2026!! Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues Connect with Jay on: https://jayshetty.me/ http
- GET HIM OBSESSED - CAPRICORNDec 15, 2025 · 26 minWelcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This December, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Capricorn man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 How to win over his ambitious and disciplined heart—and keep him hooked. 🔥 Foolproof ways to earn his trust and build a solid connection. 🔥 What he values most in a partner (and what will make him pull away). 🔥 The signs he’s losing interest—and how to reignite his commitment to you. 🔥 Proven strategies to win him back if he’s started to drift away. Whether you’re drawn to his drive and dependability or trying to reignite the connection, this episode will give you the tools to master the art of loving a Capricorn man. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- She Comes First with Dr. Emily Morse Pt.2Dec 11, 2025 · 38 minWELCOME TO PART 2, b*tches! :) We ended Part 1 with how to give your man a good head and the #1 Oral Method to make a girl c*m. Now listen up as Emily shows me the best way to find the REAL G-Spot. We end the episode with tips to not c*m too fast, hilarious fan sex stories and how I ended up in the ER after a fingering gone wrong. Connect with Dr. Emily Morse: Website Instagram Sex with Emily Podcast Connect with me on: Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- She Comes First with Dr. Emily MorseDec 8, 2025 · 40 minFrom getting your taco licked to c*mming EVERY time, this week’s episode is SO good, I’m giving you TWO parts. Welcome to part 1 besties :) I have Renowned sex therapist Emily Morse join us to teach you how to cum over and over again, so take out your notepad and get ready to take some notes. We discuss how to, love your body and vageen, get your man to go down on you, tips for giving a wifey blowie, facts vs myths about intercourse, the #1 ORAL METHOD THAT WILL MAKE YOUR GIRL C*M EVERY TIME, and more!!! TUNE IN NEXT WEEK FOR PT. 2!!! And don’t forget to leave a 5 star review on the apple podcast app! WATCH EPISODE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UBlREGs3L8c Connect with me on: Instagram YouTube Connect with Dr. Emily Morse: Website Instagram Sex with Emily Podcast See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Manifest Miracles I Law of Attraction 432 Hz I Elevate Your VibrationDec 1, 2025 · 3 hrBonus episode - 3 hours of manifesting sound for anyone looking to elevate their vibrations and energy to better attract and manifest while sleeping or for anyone looking for frequency music to listen to while practicing gratitude or doing my manifesting techniques from last episode/other episodes. This powerful track uses the 432Hz frequency as a base and continuously builds on itself, allowing you to elevate your vibrations and focus your energy on manifestation. Listening to this audio track or meditating at a frequency of 432 Hz can help you elevate your vibration and connect with higher states of consciousness necessary for manifesting miracles. You can use this tool to attract wealth, achieve financial freedom, gain education, or travel to luxury destinations. *Reminder: visualisation is a crucial element of the law of attraction so remember to visualise your dreams while this sound is on* The power of your mind and the universe is within your reach, and by focusing on positive thoughts, elevating your vibration, and using the Law of Attraction, you can make your dreams a reality. Download this episode to save this sound and share with a friend. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Here’s Why He Went ColdNov 27, 2025 · 41 minThe Real Reason Men Shut Down, Pull Away, and Go Blank. Ever dated someone who was warm one minute… and emotionally shut down the next? In this week’s Benson Book Club, we break down Chapter 7 of The Untethered Soul - “Transcending the Tendency to Close.” This chapter explains: why people emotionally close off why your ex suddenly went cold the psychology behind emotional shutdown and avoidance how to recognize when YOU close your heart and how this pattern destroys connection I also give you a step-by-step Law of Detachment routine for heartbreak that I did to get over bookman!! The exact script to record, what to listen to every night, and a clean way to detach from someone who can’t show up for you. If you want to understand why someone pulled away… or you need help letting go fast… this episode gives you clarity, strategy, and the tools to move on. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Finding My Husband: Is This the End of Bookman?Nov 20, 2025 · 34 minEverything felt perfect… until the rabbit showed up. An emotional shift I couldn’t explain, a pullback I didn’t see coming, and the moment Bookman and I quietly unraveled. This episode dives into the signs you miss, the distance you feel before it’s spoken, and the breakup you don’t want to admit is happening. Did I make a mistake walking away… or would you have done the same? You tell me. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- GET HIM OBSESSED - SAGITTARIUSNov 17, 2025 · 18 minWelcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This November, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Sagittarius man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 How to capture his adventurous spirit and keep him intrigued. 🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for freedom with your desire for connection. 🔥 What he craves in a relationship (and what will send him running). 🔥 The signs he’s losing interest—and how to reignite his excitement for you. 🔥 Strategies to win him back if his restless heart has wandered. Whether you’re drawn to his energy and optimism or trying to bring back his focus, this episode will teach you how to keep a Sagittarius man hooked for the long haul. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Why You Don’t Feel Loved Unless He Says ItNov 13, 2025 · 25 minYou don’t want flowers. You want reassurance. If he can post a story, he can send a sentence that says “I care about you.” This episode is for every woman who feels crazy for needing words - because guess what? You’re not clingy. You’re not insecure. You’re under-affirmed. We’re unpacking why hearing “I love you,” “I’m proud of you,” or “I’m here” hits like emotional oxygen… and why silence feels like abandonment. If his silence makes you overthink, if you keep replaying one compliment for three weeks, if you’ve ever begged a man to just communicate — you’re in the right place. Hit play and stop settling for men who “feel it” but can’t say it. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Feeling Happy? Don’t Tell Your FriendsNov 12, 2025 · 34 minThe evil eye lives in your group chat. Did I stutter? Ever notice the SECOND you share good news - your life collapses faster than a Nature Valley bar? Same. One minute I’m being loved correctly, soft life era unlocked… Next minute? Like not even 24 hours later - I break my foot, bleed from my privates, and end up crawling around my house like a feral naked raccoon throwing up on my hardwood floors with my milk bags hanging low, while I genuinely wonder how I got here. The evil eye is REAL. But it doesn’t come from your enemies… it comes from your friends - the ones cheering the loudest… right until you start winning. Most of them don’t even realise they’re subconsciously sending you bad energy… just because your happiness reminds them of the places they’re not. Protect your wins. Protect your joy. And get ready to laugh your toes off with today’s episode. Hit play — and if this episode calls someone out, send it to them. Thank me later ;) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Build Better Habits in 4 StepsOct 29, 2025 · 31 minStruggling with your goals? then listen to this. Today we dive into my dumpster fire of a life before diving into the science of habit formation with a sprinkle of sarcasm. We’re breaking down the game-changing insights from James Clear's Atomic Habits to help you build habits that actually stick. I'll walk you through the four simple steps to form habits that work for you, not against you. It’s educational, it’s real, and eye opening. Tune in to stop overthinking and start automating your way to a better life. Listen now, and thank me later. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- I Broke My Foot on a DateOct 23, 2025 · 37 minWhat do you do when your hot‑girl era turns into a medical horror story? I broke my foot on a date, got a UTI, and spent the day being gaslit by the ER - who sent me home TWICE with a literal displaced fracture… but not before charging me for wasting my time. I can’t walk for two months, might need surgery, and now I’m side‑eyeing my friends because my scorpio senses are tingling that one of them definitely gave me the evil eye. It’s giving delusion, humiliation, and the American healthcare system at its finest. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- What Men Still Don’t Know About Women’s Bodies with Winx HealthOct 16, 2025 · 49 minStart with the PSA - it’s your biology lesson in detachment. Send it to every girl who caught feelings after he came inside her. Then we dive into vag myths, s@x lies & the patriarchy - we’re breaking down everything men still get wrong about women’s bodies. What’s the craziest thing a woman’s admitted about her taco? The biggest myth men still believe in 2025? And is it true a fishy taco is actually HIS fault? Yeah, I asked all of it and more. :) The founders of Winx Health join me for the most unfiltered, chaotic, and actually-educational convo about women’s bodies you’ll ever hear. Go to HelloWinx.com/Adulting for 50% off at walgreens for all Winx products! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Finding My Husband: Dating an Avoidant - Vegas Part 2Oct 9, 2025 · 35 minThe trip ended, the lessons didn’t. In Part 2 of Finding My Husband: Vegas, I’m talking about the real game: how to keep him hooked without losing yourself Why even healthy love will still drive you a little insane sometimes How to self-regulate before you self-sabotage From overthinking to attachment theory Everything you need to know about dating an avoidant And how to actually win an avoidant over (dating podcast • attachment styles • relationship advice • how to love an avoidant • female-hosted podcast) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Finding My Husband: American Meets Russian Standards - Vegas Part 1Oct 9, 2025 · 31 minIt was supposed to be a romantic Vegas trip… until I got hemorrhoids, threw up in a $900 suite, did shrooms (allegedly), and had second thoughts about Bookman. Why? Because this man did the unthinkable… he texted back, planned dates, opened doors, used empathy, and was willing to change. Is this too good to be true… or have I met my match? You tell me. Welcome to Part 1 of Finding My Husband: Vegas - where romance meets chaos, Russian standards meet American men, and emotionally stable men are the new red flag. I said what I said. (dating podcast • Vegas trip chaos • attachment theory • love bomber or match • relationship overthinking • female hosted podcast) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Why You Need to Stop Caring Who Thinks You’re CringeOct 2, 2025 · 27 minThinking about starting that business, becoming an influencer, or finally posting that video?? If the only thing standing between you and your dreams is worrying what people might think.. then this episode is about to set you FREE. Truth is, other people’s opinions are keeping you Broke & boring babe .. which is why today, we’re unpacking Mel Robbins’ Let Them Think Bad Thoughts . And once you get it, you’ll realise other people’s opinions have zero power over you. This is your permission slip to post, build, create, and live unapologetically. Want an ad free podcast experience?? Subscribe to my ad free podcast at - https://almostadulting.supercast.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Finding My Husband: Billionaire or Bookman? - Part 6Sep 25, 2025 · 52 minDo you pick the billionaire with private jets and a family fortune, or the guy who makes you feel safe but probably flies coach? In Part 6 of “Finding My Husband,” the universe drops a literal billionaire into my life right as I’m about to take things with Bookman to the next level. I unpack lust vs. stability, attachment wounds, and the messy decisions that follow… and by the end, I make a huge choice. WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE, BESTIE? Don’t forget to subscribe for weekly episodes and leave a 5-star review on Apple or Spotify so I know you want more of this series. (Dating podcast • relationship advice • modern love • situationship • dating stories) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- GET HIM OBSESSED - LIBRASep 22, 2025 · 25 minWelcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This September, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Libra man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 How to charm the ultimate romantic and keep him captivated by you. 🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for beauty, harmony, and connection. 🔥 What he values most in a relationship (and what will tip the scales against you). 🔥 The signs he’s pulling away—and how to bring back the spark. 🔥 Strategies to win him back if things have gone off course. Whether you’re drawn to his charm and sophistication or working to reignite his passion, this episode will give you the tools to master the art of loving a Libra man. Hit play now and make sure to save this episode to make this September all about claiming the heart of the zodiac’s ultimate charmer! ✨ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- The Bar Is in HellSep 19, 2025 · 33 minThink you’ve had the worst date ever? Try going out with a musician… WORST. DATE. FINAL. BOSS. From men wearing my Skims to guys with kids my age, the dating pool isn’t just in hell… it’s swimming in piss and UTIs. Welcome to Part 5, besties. Buckle up because this episode is UNHINGED and will have you laughing your socks off. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists PlaySep 11, 2025 · 36 minWelcome to the narcissist playbook Think you’ve never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apology—these are the Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play that’ll have you questioning your reality, your group chat, and maybe even your sanity. On today's episode, Violetta is breaking down their playbook, exposing every trick, and telling you exactly how to spot the BS before it wrecks your self-esteem. If you’ve ever left a date wondering if you’re crazy… spoiler: you’re not. He’s just a narcissist. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Finding My Husband: Fight or Flight - Part 4Sep 4, 2025 · 35 minFrom choking games to first kisses. Welcome to the most chaotic update yet. Is Bookman too good to be true… or did I just meet my match? See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Finding My Husband: Meet Bookman - Part 3Aug 28, 2025 · 39 minHe planned the perfect rom-com date.. five hours of sparks, soul-connection, and eye contact so intense - it puts your favourite book daddy to shame. Twenty minutes later? I dumped him. Did I fumble… or dodge a bullet? You tell me. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- The Tinder SwindlerAug 21, 2025 · 34 minNo intro. No filter. Just me crashing out mid-coffee jitters, questioning a man’s job, his five passports, and whether I just met my future husband or the next Tinder Swindler. The dating pool is in hell. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- GET HIM OBSESSED - VIRGOAug 18, 2025 · 23 minWelcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This August, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Virgo man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 The secrets to understanding his perfectionist tendencies—and how to meet his high standards. 🔥 Foolproof ways to earn his trust and keep his attention. 🔥 What he values most in a partner (and what will make him back away). 🔥 Subtle signs he’s losing interest—and how to win him back effortlessly. 🔥 The best strategies to reignite the spark if he starts pulling away. Whether you’re drawn to his intelligence and dependability or trying to reignite the connection, this episode will show you how to handle the zodiac’s most meticulous lover. Tune in now and make this August all about mastering the art of Virgo romance! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
- Date From HellAug 14, 2025 · 37 minOkay besties… it begins. I’m officially back in the dating game - I'm talking Hinge, matchmakers, awkward dates I already regret, and I’m taking you with me. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .