Podcast
Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter
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- Toddlers, Tour Buses & The Art of Protecting Your PeaceJun 2, 2026 · 1 hr 2 minKail and Becky are back together and catching up on everything from Becky’s Mother’s Day bar crawl adventure to home renovations, tour prep, Pride Month, and the chaos of traveling together. Becky recaps her top-five day flying from city to city, meeting listeners, and debating whether she’s morally allowed to keep using her late dad’s military discount.
Kail shares life updates from home, including the kids’ Michael Jackson obsession, Valley climbing out of her crib, Verse’s speech therapy progress, Elliot’s open mic performance and first short film, and the emotional reality of preparing for tour while trying to protect her peace. Plus, they talk LA memories, Harry Jowsey, friendship in the podcast world, downsizing before a move, book-to-movie disappointments, and whether restocking the snack cabinet is karma or chaos.
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- Just a Couple of Damaged GirliesMay 26, 2026 · 1 hr 12 minKail and Becky wrap up their California trip with an episode full of honesty, chaos, and a few unexpectedly emotional turns. Becky opens with an important reminder to anyone struggling that help is worth asking for before things reach a breaking point.
From there, the girls get into hot takes, friendship loyalty, life lessons from past relationships, remote work, motherhood, growing up, and the versions of themselves they’ve had to leave behind. Kail also opens up about defending Ike, what it means to finally have a supportive partner beside her, and the loneliness that can come with building a public life.
Plus, Becky gets measured on-air, Kail spirals over being taller than expected, they talk gender selection, tour stops, For the Haters, and end with an emotional “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” about marriage, immigration, guilt, and the life choices that never feel simple.
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- Becky VS The EmpressMay 19, 2026 · 1 hr 10 minKail and Becky still in sunny California with podcast reviews, tour updates, and plenty of chaos. From audiobook narration and listener feedback to relationship independence, personal space, trust, and keeping your own identity in a partnership, they get into what it really looks like to balance love and autonomy.
Plus, they react to wild stories about phrogging, a controversial surrogacy story involving a late son’s sperm, child support debates, Ted Lasso, movies that make them feel not smart enough, Brianna Chickenfry lore, and one Karma or Chaos submission about raising a troubled teen after a complicated family history.
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- California Chaos & Gluten ConspiraciesMay 12, 2026 · 1 hr 3 minKail and Becky are coming to you from California with hotel chaos, fine dining debates, and a very unexpected conversation about octopus, gluten, and why Kail may finally have answers about what’s been making her so sick.
They also get into Beck's health update, the terrifying dead mouse situation, Becky’s upcoming move, Kail’s thoughts on possibly relocating, tour ticket updates, fan meetups, and why coming alone to a show might be less scary than you think.
To wrap things up, they answer a listener question about parenting an 18-year-old through heartbreak, impulsive choices, and the kind of relationship drama that feels impossible to reason with in the moment.
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- When Love, Parenting & Pressure CollideMay 5, 2026 · 1 hr 6 minKail and Becky are back with life updates, parenting chaos, and some honest conversations that hit deeper than expected. Kail talks Spanish immersion night, raising competitive kids, tour planning, the Webby Awards, and the frustration of navigating things she can’t fully share yet.
Becky opens up about reconnecting with Leah after having Becks, working through the hard parts of new parenthood, and why empathy matters when people judge situations they haven’t lived. Plus, they get into family history, donor conception, Alex vs. Alex drama, school needing a social media update, and one unforgettable cow birth story.
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- This Episode Felt Like a Fever DreamApr 28, 2026 · 57 minThis week on Karma and Chaos, Kail and Becky are leaving the wrong kind of chaos behind… allegedly. After a day that can only be described as emotionally illegal, they get into tour excitement, dead dad humor, TikTok live randomness, leaked search histories, and a round of “would you rather” questions that spirals almost immediately.
From exes and intrusive thoughts to family group chats, fake jobs, accidental trauma dumps, Fear Factor ideas, and Becky’s extremely questionable Philly Wawa story, this episode is unhinged in the exact way it should be. It’s honest, hilarious, a little dark, and somehow still ends with the reminder that the goal for the rest of the year is simple: less bullshit, more fun.
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- Becky’s College Chaos Era ft MorganApr 21, 2026 · 1 hr 3 minThis episode of Karma & Chaos takes a wild turn down memory lane as Kail and Becky are joined by Becky’s college best friend, Morgan. From how they met to the kind of college antics that turn into full-blown legend status, nothing is off limits.
Underneath the chaos is something deeper; what it really looks like to grow up together and maintain a friendship through all the different phases of life.. As the conversation shifts into motherhood, relationships, and identity, the contrast between who they were and who they are now hits in a way that’s both hilarious and unexpectedly real.
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- Tour Talk & Surviving the ChaosApr 14, 2026 · 1 hr 8 minKail and Becky are back behind the mic with a full catch-up on life lately, and this episode covers a little bit of everything. They talk about the excitement and pressure leading up to tour, Becky’s new podcast format getting such a positive response, and the challenges of balancing work, friendship, parenting, and everything happening behind the scenes.
They also get into Becks' first injury, Elliott’s big school milestone, Lincoln’s sports schedule, and the bigger conversations that come with raising boys and figuring it all out as you go. Between the serious moments and the random tangents, this one feels like the kind of real-life catch-up listeners have come to expect from your chaos crew.
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- Life Lately: Chaos IncludedApr 7, 2026 · 59 minOn this episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky are back together after time apart and catching up on everything—from vacation highs and moving daydreams to kids, school milestones, and the realities of parenting with partners who actually show up. What starts as a lighthearted conversation about Florida, Alabama, strip clubs, and stripper pole bruises turns into a real talk about motherhood, shared responsibility, resentment, and what it means to build a life that actually feels good.
Plus, they share exciting updates on new projects, tour plans, small businesses they’re loving, and the kind of friendship that makes even the most chaotic moments easier to carry.
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- Attachment Styles: Explained & Exposed With Thais GibsonMar 31, 2026 · 1 hr 24 minWhat if your relationship patterns aren’t just coincidence… but something deeper?
This week on Karma & Chaos, Kail & Becky are joined by Thais Gibson-bestselling author and founder of the Personal Development School for a conversation that gets very real, very fast.
What starts as an interview quickly turns personal as Thais breaks down how attachment styles and subconscious patterns shape the way we love, fight, and show up in relationships.
As walls come down and patterns get called out in real time, this episode becomes less about theory and more about what’s actuallyhappening beneath the surface.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same cycles or questioned your relationships, this one might hit closer than you expect.
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- A Little Depressed & A Little DelusionalMar 24, 2026 · 1 hr 7 minThis week on Karma and Chaos, what starts as a chaotic catch-up turns into one of those conversations that somehow gets hilarious, unfiltered, and unexpectedly deep all at once. Between the dark humor, side quests, and classic group derailments, the episode also taps into the heavier stuff—friendship, burnout, and the complicated ways people show up for each other when life feels off.
It’s messy, funny, a little existential, and exactly the kind of episode that reminds you why nothing stays on track for long around here.
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- Silly Goofy GirlsMar 17, 2026 · 1 hr 8 minThis week on Karma & Chaos, the chaos is fully in the driver’s seat.
What starts as one conversation quickly spirals into friendship theories, Mother’s Day debates, book-to-movie hot takes, childhood TV flashbacks, and the kind of unfiltered commentary that somehow makes complete sense only here.
Between laugh-out-loud side tangents and surprisingly real moments, this episode is a perfect reminder that the best conversations are usually the ones that go completely off the rails.
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- Everybody’s Mic’d Up & Nobody’s OkayMar 10, 2026 · 1 hr 7 minThis week on Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky are back at the content house with plenty of chaos, unexpected emotional moments, and the kind of conversation that goes everywhere in the best way.
From funny behind-the-scenes stories and life updates to a real talk on motherhood, grief, judgment, and giving moms more grace, this episode balances humor with honesty in a way only they can. Plus, they wrap things up with a listener submission that hits especially close to home.
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- Are We the Bad Examples?Mar 3, 2026 · 1 hr 6 minThis week on Karma & Chaos, Jess and Tracy from Bad Examples jump in for Kail and the chaos immediately spirals in the funniest way possible. What starts as a break up convo turns into flirty text drama, Jersey-girl debates, and a surprisingly real conversation about dating burnout, sexuality, and why men keep disappointing us.
Plus: behind-the-scenes Jerseylicious tea, the “lipstick vs chapstick” lesbian breakdown, the Staples baddie rabbit hole, and a Feet Finder side quest we did not see coming.
Messy, hilarious, a little too honest, and 100% worth the listen.
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- Good Morning, Good Evening, Good ChaosFeb 24, 2026 · 52 minThis week on Karma & Chaos, we’re catching up in real time- we also get honest about parenting guilt, balancing work and family life, and the emotional weight that comes with being “on” all the time. From college tours and career dreams to relationship growth, friendship dynamics, and a few unfiltered hot takes (including vacations, karma, and all-inclusive resorts), this episode is full of the kind of conversations that only happen when the mics are rolling.
It’s funny, reflective, slightly chaotic and very real.
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- Moose MeltdownsFeb 17, 2026 · 1 hr 10 minOn this episode of Karma and Chaos, Kail and Becky kick things off after a failed first recording attempt and immediately spiral-from learning that moose shed their antlers to snowstorm stress and “emergency heat” confusion.
Then the conversation turns real: why more people are using AI for sensitive health questions, what kids actually need to learn about boundaries and self-worth, and why speaking up about humanity shouldn’t be controversial. Plus a quick bookish moment for your TBR and an “Is it Karma or is it Chaos?” story that proves traveling with middle schoolers is its own kind of punishment.
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- Nutty BuddiesFeb 10, 2026 · 1 hr 1 minThis week your girlies are back with their usual chaos!
We are pondering how do you talk to kids about why some people pee standing up and others don't, testing their global knowledge on world flags, Becky unveils an exciting new business chapter and we talk about how to talk to your friends about their kids' behavior.
This is episode is half cozy, half chaos and we wouldn't want it any other way!
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- Are You Smarter Than A Karmaroo?!Feb 3, 2026 · 1 hr 1 minKail and Becky are coming at you live from Dover, Delaware with peak Karma & Chaos energy with Red Rising tees, TikTok Shop temptations, and a full-blown “Are You Smarter Than a Fifth Grader?” showdown that proves… math is personal and fractions are a hate crime.
Between impulse buys, Peloton struggles, and the very real “when do parents even have time to work out?” debate, the girls get into what 2026 boundaries are actually going to look like, plus a surprisingly sweet moment where they talk about what they’d miss most about each other. There’s a pop culture lightning round, chaotic confidence, and just enough yapping to make you feel like you’re in the room with them.
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- Karma, Chaos, and Curly FriesJan 27, 2026 · 1 hr 3 minKail and Becky are back with their energy at an all-time high, complete with Dave’s Hot Chicken cravings, an outfit that has everyone spiraling, and the kind of random conversation whiplash that you've come to know and love.
In this episode, they get into BookTok habits, nostalgia over digital cameras and MySpace-era chaos, and a deeper question about memory, identity, and who really knows you best. They also touch on parenting perspective shifts, friendship effort, and why 2026 is about getting more intentional-especially when it comes to creative projects and choosing what deserves your time.
Plus: a Karma or Chaos submission that hits a little too close to home—when a “best friend” can’t let you win without making it about them, and what it really means to outgrow someone.
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- New Boundaries, Same ChaosJan 20, 2026 · 56 minKarma & Chaos is back, baby and 2026 is already unhinged. Kail and Becky are finally recording in person (a 2026 priority) and catching up on everything they’ve been saving for the mic: the return of “controversial Kail,” co-parenting chaos, and what happens when the internet is already talking…
Plus, the girls tease big travel plans, things get unexpectedly soft about parenting moments that hit you right in the chest, and spiral into their favorite kind of nonsense from BookTok to the wild world of side hustles that absolutely did not need to exist (but here we are).
And of course, it’s not an episode without an Is It Karma or Is It Chaos? This week’s submission: would you date a grown man who shares his location with his mom… and she actually uses it?
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- Executing all 2026Jan 13, 2026 · 52 minKail and Becky kick off Karma & Chaos what they're hoping for the year to come then the ladies recap the Dream Drive, a Bucks County event supporting foster kids with a Christmas breakfast, Santa photos, and sponsored wish lists plus how Lux and Elliot helped and what it teaches kids about empathy and privilege. Then they dive into the money conversations everyone has opinions on: living paycheck to paycheck, spending habits, saving vs. investing, setting kids up financially, and where to draw the line when lending out cash.
The girls close out the episode with an Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos about dad getting the kids riled up before bed.
In true karma and chaos fashion there is a conversation for everyone, from executing plans to saving for them we have it all for you this week!
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- Sobify WrappedJan 6, 2026 · 51 minKail and Becky are back for a classic “we’re just yapping” episode that turns into everything from book talk and the great “DNF” debate, to a full breakdown of Kail’s new content house (aka the work HQ + guest crash pad).
They dig into listener questions with real-life honesty: how to be a calmer mom when you’re overstimulated, why Kail says yes to her kids’ activities. Then the conversation takes a deeper turn into grief during the holidays, balancing sadness with joy, and protecting your peace when family relationships are complicated.
Plus: dream vacations , 2026 goals, and one listener email that has everyone emotional because Derek from is out here raising the bar for husbands everywhere.
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- (ENCORE) In New York Of CityDec 30, 2025 · 50 minspent together. With Becky stepping into mommy duties and Kail expanding her businesses and her driveway there is a ton to catch up on. This week the ladies are joined by a live studio audience making for a really chaotic and fun time. There is plenty of chaos in this episode!
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- (ENCORE) Stever Beaver (Happy Holidays!)Dec 23, 2025 · 59 minComing to your from Kail's office aka Kail's house, meaning anything can happen! Becky and Kail talk about celebrating Christmas and how it's evolved (or not) throughout the years. Becky talks about meeting Elijah for the first time and reuniting with Kail's kids.
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- Snowed In & SpiralingDec 16, 2025 · 56 minSnow day’s got nothing on this episode. Kail and Becky kick off this week's episode with real-life mom chaos: sleep deprivation, jet-lagged babies, fever dreams that feel way too real, and the whiplash of going from “easy baby” to “I’m about to lose my mind.” From there, they get honest about how parenthood can shift friendships, identity, and even your relationship with your partner; these are the parts people don’t always say out loud, especially during the holidays.
They also dive into building traditions, navigating the guilt of not showing up the same way for friends once kids enter the picture, and why the “village” feels harder to find than ever.
To wrap it up, Kail and Becky tackle a wild “Karma or Chaos” submission from a veterinary nurse facing a moral dilemma: protect a brand-new business or report a vet for questionable (and potentially illegal) practices. It’s messy, funny, empathetic, and very Karma and Chaos.
Listen now for relatable motherhood talk, unfiltered friendship conversations, and a moral debate that’ll have you yelling at your speaker.
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- In Our Depressy EraDec 9, 2025 · 1 hr 4 minIt’s been way too long, so Kail and Becky finally sit down for a real catch-up and nothing is off limits. From seasonal depression and holiday heaviness to Kail’s entire house getting hit with influenza A, the girls get honest about what this time of year actually feels like behind the highlight reels.
Kail opens up about the emotional (and literal) weight of five-hour custody drives, missing kid events, and trying to hold it all together with seven kids and nonstop sports. Becky shares updates on baby Becks Florida travels, her changing relationship with motherhood, and why Miss Rachel absolutely counts as survival.
The conversation spirals (in the best way) into audiobook commitments, Barnes & Noble rebrands, kid milestones, performative good deeds, fake influencers, childhood letters to soldiers, and reminiscing on Becky's Uber days?
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It’s chaotic. It’s comforting. It’s exactly why you’re here.
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- When Tik Tok Meets Teen Mom With EnriqueDec 2, 2025 · 55 minKail and Becky are joined by Enrique, the TikTok creator who shot his shot to get on the pod. He shares how he accidentally built a following by covering online drama and Teen Mom lore, and what it’s like feeling “raised by MTV.”
Kail opens up about how she really got cast on 16 & Pregnant, what was actually scripted vs. recreated, the truth about those voiceovers and reunions, and how reality TV impacted her mental health and friendships. Becky gives her honest take on watching Kail grow from peak chaos into a business-minded mom, while still staying the same unfiltered friend.
From ranking Kail’s baby dads, to dog-ashes-as-grandma-ashes karma, and a chaotic Teen Mom RV road trip pitch, this episode is equal parts behind-the-scenes tea, emotional honesty, and pure unhinged group chat energy.
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- ENCORE: The DDC (Dead Dads Club)Nov 25, 2025 · 57 minENCORE: In the premiere episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into the ups and downs of their long-time friendship and discuss what they learned after years apart. Reflecting on the past five years, they address rumors (are they in love with each other?), clarify the original timing for their podcast's launch, and share a heartfelt message about their vision for the show.
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- The Mob Is Real?!Nov 18, 2025 · 47 minKail and Becky kick off this episode of Karma and Chaos with late-start banter that turns into something real: food insecurity, SNAP benefits, and how Kail is stocking her Delaware egg stand with pantry staples so local families don’t go hungry. From there, the chaos takes over with Kail’s deep dive into the mob and space conspiracies. The girls wrap the episode with an “Is it Karma or is it Chaos?” listener story about divorced parents possibly getting back together (and why it’s never the kid’s fault).
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- Toothbrush GateNov 11, 2025 · 54 minThis week the girls are spiraling through: kid eczema (gut talk, steroid drama, mom guilt), sports-mom sidelines when you don’t know the plays (but you are the loudest), and a Louvre heist hot take no one asked for. We debrief Verity, argue about waking sleeping babies, and settle the eternal debates: is sharing toothbrushes disgusting or a part of being in a comitted relationship?
The episode closes with an Is It Karma or Is It Chaos? where a listener is worried about karma after potential infidelity?
It’s cozy. It’s unhinged. It’s home. It's the chaos you know and love.
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- Gap Years & Gut FeelingsNov 4, 2025 · 59 minIt’s a cozy-chaotic catch-up with Kail and Becky coffee in hand, baby cameos, and a big question: is college still worth it?
They unpack college vs. trade routes, why study abroad can be life-changing and what queer-teen safety looks like at sleepovers. They dig into student-athlete scholarship politics, current reads , boundaries with draining friends, budgeting wins plus a listener letter you don’t want to miss.
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- A Year of Karma & ChaosOct 28, 2025 · 50 minKail and Becky are back with a cozy dose of chaos. From spontaneous game-night adventures to gratitude check-ins that get real, they open up about parenthood, partnership, and finding peace in the mess. There’s laughter, a little online drama, and one spicy “Karma or Chaos” confession you don’t want to miss.
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- AI NightmaresOct 21, 2025 · 53 minThis week Kail & Becky are catching you up on all the goings on! Becky updates us on how she's feeling and she is determined to keep her eyes dry this episode! Kail chats with us about some lip updates and shares why AI is really getting scarier. Of course there is always some Karma and some Chaos with your submissions!
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- Gratitude Makes Life Worth LivingOct 14, 2025 · 1 hr 8 minTW: This episode has mentions of miscarriages.
On this week's episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky are back with some sad updates. The ladies come together to offer perspective and support to one another through the challenging times they are each facing. Later in the episode the ladies answer some hard hitting questions like would you let your child skip out on a scholarship for love? And as always there's a dash of Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos with your submissions!
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- ENCORE: Contouring And CryingOct 7, 2025 · 54 minThis week Kail and Becky are coming in HOT with the chaos and maybe some crying. Things may sound a little different since we are mixing things up and recording in a new setting. The ladies show a new side of their relationship this week; their sisterly dynamic sometimes gets a little feisty like when they discuss if matcha tastes like dirt, does Becky have street smarts and of course so much more.
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- The Great Underwear WarSep 30, 2025 · 47 minKail flies solo(…kind of) with Kristen on moral-support duty after a chaotic morning laptop saga—and it only gets realer from there. She opens up about handling internet comments, limiting the scroll, and why overspending spirals hit hard.
Plus: sports updates for all the kids, Valley starting gymnastics, the hilarious underwear war, and a new round of “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” From chaotic Target runs to group-chat fails, this episode is equal parts raw, funny, and relatable.
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- Where the Cluck Is Chili?Sep 23, 2025 · 52 minKail and Becky are back catching up on everything: Kail’s emotional trip to Texas to reconnect with her dad (and what she learned about old family stories), Becky’s big auntie news, and how becoming “the plug” for comfort buys is a real dopamine sport. Trigger note: brief discussion of suicidal ideation and mental health.
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- Harmless ChaosSep 16, 2025 · 48 minThis week Kail and Becky are covering it all in true Chaos fashion. They hit on topics ranging from a relationship would you rather, TT group chats gone wrong, AI mishaps and so much more! This week's Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos involve a funeral crasher.....tune in for all the chaos you know and love.
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- Lazy Lips, Lottery Dreams & Lake House SchemesSep 9, 2025 · 50 minKail is back for an unfiltered catch-up that has everything: plastic-surgery recovery real talk, therapy takeaways, kindergarten jitters, and the chaotic debate over whether 47 minutes of attention a day is enough. Kail shares what’s helping with swelling, inflammation, and confidence post-op. We also touch on vitamin K for newborns (do your research!) and why financial literacy matters when life gets… extra. An episode with all the chaos you know and love!
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- ENCORE: Reading Your CommentsSep 2, 2025 · 56 minThis week Kail and Becky are reading your comments and some are just plain diabolical. The ladies are also celebrating Becky's recent credit milestone! This week's Is It Karma or Is It Chaos submission leads the ladies to wonder; is it ever okay to judge a mom?
To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.com
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Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters
Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!
BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.
Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karma
Everyday Dose: You can now find Everyday Dose in Target stores across the country. Celebrate with a Buy-One-Get-One deal. Just buy any two Everyday Dose products at a Target store near you, and they’ll pay you back for one. Visit everydaydose.com/CHAOS for more details.
ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Breakin' Down Parenting With Becky & TyAug 26, 2025 · 1 hr 11 minThis week while Kail is healing up Becky is joined by Ty of Cate & Ty Break It Down! They discuss all things parenting from the unique ways families are created, to how parenting can effect your relationship and so much more! Tune in for a heartfelt episode with tons of insight!
Check out Cate & Ty Break It Down
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Everyday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!
Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karma
OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karma
Mint Mobile: This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/karma.
Willie’s: Order now at drinkwillies.com and use code KARMA for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95, and enjoy life in the high country.
Listen now to the Life Kit podcast from NPR.
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- This Is How Rumors StartAug 19, 2025 · 1 hr 4 minOn this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky brings on Alessandra while Kail recovers from surgery. They get real about IVF, newborn life, and the messy beauty of building a chosen family. Becky shares the emotional moment baby Bex met his donor plus the challenges of postpartum shifts, parenting in public, and grieving your old life while embracing the new.
From fertility journeys to the chaos of children’s books, this episode is all about love, family, and finding your community; no matter how unconventional it looks.
To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.com
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Beam: For a limited time, Beam is offering my listeners our listeners up to 35% off Glow! Just visit shopbeam.com/KARMA and use code KARMA at checkout.
Brain.FM: Unlock FREE access to all of Brain.fm for 30 days by going to brain.fm/KARMA.
HelloFresh: The best way to cook just got better. Go to hellofresh.com/KARMA10FM now to Get 10 Free Meals + a Free Item for Life!
Nurture Life: head to NurtureLife.com/KARMA and use code KARMA for 55% off your first order PLUS free shipping.
Willie's: Order now at drinkwillies.com and use code KARMA for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95, and enjoy life in the high country.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- The Chins' Last HurrahAug 12, 2025 · 47 minThis week Kail and Becky talk about Salem getaway, newborn updates with Becks, a shocking hernia misdiagnosis, bike-riding mishaps, fertility journeys, and navigating grief over past relationships. Expect unfiltered laughs, heartfelt moments, and a dash of chaos.
To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.com
For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry
Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters
Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!
OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karma
Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order
and 365-day returns.
ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.
Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Chat GPT Is Taking OverAug 5, 2025 · 54 minThis week Kail and Becky are catching each other up and us. The ladies discuss everything from managing expectations, to financial literacy and how much they are both terrified of Chat GPT but use it frequently.
In this week's Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos a friend's horrific comment has Kail and Becky spiraling and wondering would you wait for your friend to get pregnant?
To write in your Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos submissions email info@karmachaospodcast.com
For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry
Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters
Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!
BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.
Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karma
Everyday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!
HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- From Stamp Collections to Daddy IssuesJul 29, 2025 · 44 minIn this emotional episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail shares the news sparking a raw conversation about abandonment, closure, and complicated family ties. She and Becky explore what it means to seek answers from someone who may never give them and whether showing up is healing or harmful.
Plus, they touch on elopement guest list drama, the Coldplay cheating scandal, and a “Karma or Chaos” bake sale takedown you won’t forget.
To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.com
For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry
Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters
Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!
Smalls: For a limited time only get 35% off Smalls plus an additional 50% off your first order at smalls.com use code KARMA.
Listen now to the Life Kit podcast from NPR.
HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.
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- The Other Postpartum StoryJul 22, 2025 · 46 minIn one of the rawest Karma and Chaos episodes yet, Becky opens up about becoming a mom as a non-birthing parent. From the emotional intensity of watching Leah give birth to grappling with unexpected feelings of disconnection, identity shifts, and grief, Becky shares it all; tears, laughs, and a whole lot of honesty.
Kail and Becky also talk about how nobody prepares you for five outfit changes a day, the first tar poop and more. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, unseen, or not instantly bonded as a parent , this one’s for you.
To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.com
For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry
Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters
Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!
HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.
OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karma
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- 36 Questions, 1 Podcast & 0 FiltersJul 15, 2025 · 50 minIn a delirious (and low-key emotional) episode, Kail and Becky tackle the viral 36 Questions to Fall in Love - even though they’re already trauma-bonded. They unpack everything from childhood wounds and love languages to dead dad jokes and embarrassing moments that still haunt them.
Send your Karma or Chaos stories to info@karmachaospodcast.com
For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry
Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters
Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!
Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karma
Everyday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!
HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.
Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.
Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.
Shady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- The Monkeys Are Avoiding TaxesJul 8, 2025 · 49 minThis week gets real. Leah - Becky's wife is dilated - contractions are happening, and somehow we still find time to talk nipple piercings, donor siblings, and whether it’s weird to donate sperm to a lesbian couple you know in real life. Plus, we unpack the parts of grief no one talks about, why breastfeeding broke us, and how monkeys might just be avoiding taxes.
To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.com
For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry
Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters
Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!
BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.
OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karma
Shopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma
Smalls: For a limited time only get 35% off Smalls plus an additional 50% off your first order at smalls.com use code KARMA.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- ENCORE: Are The Karmaroos Smarter Than A Fifth GraderJul 1, 2025 · 54 minENCORE: we are running back one of your favorite episodes! (This week Kail & Becky are testing their knowledge and seeing if they are indeed smarter than a fifth grader. Later in the episode the ladies discuss finances in a relationship and all the different ways couples split them. This leads into a conversation about whether or not college is necessary and is it really all about WHO you know vs WHAT you know)
To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.com
For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry
Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters
Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!
BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.
Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karma
ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA
Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Twitch, Throuples & Toxic TakesJun 24, 2025 · 46 minKail and Becky are back with hummingbird drama, bisexual awakenings, and a chaotic Pride Month breakdown. They weigh in on Fletcher’s controversial switch-up, the double standards working moms face, and whether bringing a third into your marriage is karma or chaos. From Twitch debates and poly relationships to parenting realness and queer identity, this episode is chaotic...of course.
To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.com
For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry
Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters
Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!
BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.
Everyday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!
OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karma
Shady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses.
Mint Mobile: This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/karma.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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